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  • Lady Purity 15 h 52 min on 15 February 2017 Permalink
    Tags: cheaters, cheating, cheating signs, flirting, sexting   

    5 Different Types Of Cheating 

    cheating typesDifferent Types Of Cheating

    Signs that they are full-on cheating

    There are many different types of cheating that can occur, all of which will hurt the person you’re dating if they found out about it. With so many different types of cheating, it can become quite complicated to know what your partner is really up to. Luckily, you can learn all about the different signs of cheating that will lead you to believe that your partner is full-on cheating on you. I started my doubting my husband’s fidelity when his routine changed completely. He started working longer hours, not making a lunch for work, and suddenly going golfing almost every weekend in Nowra-Bomaderry. All these clues led me to believe that he was dating someone from his office and using ‘working late’ as an excuse to go to her house after work to be with her. Also, his golf clubs looked untouched and were collecting dust in the backseat of his car.

    What defines a cheater?

    What defines a cheater? Well, for starters sleeping with other people behind your lover’s back is probably the most common way of describing a cheater. But there are so many different ways that a person can be unfaithful towards their lover. For example, if someone is constantly checking people out, hitting on them, and wishing they could sleep with them, they are not really considered as cheaters. But if their lovers knew about this, it would still hurt their feelings. To learn more about emotional cheating, read our guide on the subject.

    Is cheating black and white?

    A lot of people think that cheating is black in white. So basically: did you have intercourse or not? But defining cheating by this simple action leaves a lot of room for other infidelities. Cheating is not black and white because cheating is a spectrum of actions. If you make out with someone who isn’t your lover — this is cheating. If you cuddle with someone in a sexual manner — this is cheating. If you need some help determining what counts as cheating, read our guide on the subject.

    Is sexting cheating?

    Sexting and watching porn have become somewhat of a norm in today’s society. But what would you do if you caught your husband or wife sending sexy emails and pictures to a stranger on the internet? You would probably consider it as cheating and look at them in a completely different light, right? Sexting should be considered as cheating because the person is getting off at the thought of it and being intimate with someone they aren’t involved with. Also, sexting someone or chatting with people online can usually lead to an invitation to meet in person, which would end up giving this person the opportunity to cheat skin-to-skin.

    Flirting with other people

    A lot of people say that flirting is a healthy thing to do, and although this might be true for a single person, I’m not so convinced that it is true for someone who is taken. If your partner is constantly flirting with people wherever they go, it is going to make their lover feel insecure and doubtful over their fidelity. Also, when you flirt with people, it makes others think that you are single, making you look available, which can give people the wrong idea.

  • Lady Purity 6 h 43 min on 15 February 2017 Permalink
    Tags: adultry, cheating forgiveness, forgiveness after adultry, forgiving a cheater, how to forgive   

    Reaching forgiveness after adultery 

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    Once Adultery is Discovered, There’s no Going Back

    This kind of betrayal is difficult to forgive emotionally. Surprisingly, however, the majority of marriages do survive infidelity, at least for awhile. In some cases the trust that formed the backbone of the marriage is forever eroded and thereafter it’s only a matter of time before the whole marriage goes pear shaped. Even then the adultery isn’t the cause of the divorce, it’s only a symptom of something that was missing in the first place. If you’ve been the victim of an adulterous spouse, these are the steps you need to take in order to move beyond the affair and forgive them for cheating.

    Ask a lot of questions concerning the affair

    Firstly, what you want to do is get all the facts concerning the affair. The tendency here is to become obsessive and to not be able to get the thought of your unfaithful partner out of your head. If you can get every detail it sort of ties up that loose end so ask questions until there’s nothing left to know. What you want to pay specific attention to is your partner’s emotional state and why they cheated. If you’re really interested in saving your marriage then you’re going to need to empathize with your partner, which may sound difficult, considering how hurt you are. It’s necessary though to always see things from the perspective of those who hurt you in order understand why it happened in the first place. The more information you have the better.

    At this stage, tempering your emotions is key. No matter how badly you want to scream or throw things, your partner is not going to disclose information to someone who is in rage-mode. Not, at least, if they have a shred of self-preservation left within them. So be sure you’re calm before you pump them for information.

    Address your feelings concerning the affair

    You’re going to want specifically to talk about how the affair made you feel. Instead of telling them about themselves and how crappy of a human being they are, focus on how their actions made you feel. The single best indicator of whether a marriage can survive an affair or not is the cheating partner’s capacity to empathize with the spouse they cheated on.

    How to Forgive Someone for Betraying the Trust

    You can forgive someone without letting them off the hook. It helps if you can figure out what extenuating circumstance led to the affair. When there is a situation reason like tension within the marriage, squabbles over money, kids, work, or whatever else, sometimes that tension leads partners to seek intimacy outside their marriage. This isn’t an excuse, but it does explain why the affair happened. Your feelings matter. If your partner matters, your feelings will matter to them too. So forgive them, yes. But don’t let them off the hook.

    Forgiveness after Adultery is Possible

    Painful memories do fade, and under the right circumstances, trust can be rebuilt. In fact, the communication tools you learn when you’re dealing with a marital crisis like this can actually make your marriage stronger. Sometimes this involves getting a marriage counselor to work you through this difficult period. Marriage counselors can be beneficial because they teach you how to communicate with one another in more effective ways. But if the will to repair the marriage is there, it can be done. But both parties have to commit to that choice.

  • Lady Purity 2 h 41 min on 6 February 2017 Permalink
    Tags: cheating clues, detective for cheating, he cheated, private detective, private detective to catch him cheating   

    Hiring A Private Detective To Find Out If He’s Cheating: Can You Handle The Truth? 

    private detectivePrivate Detective For Cheating

    Hiring a detective for cheating purposes

    Hiring a private detective for cheating purposes is a lot more common than you would think. Sure, private investigators usually help find missing people or valuables, but it makes complete sense that a private detective would also be good at figuring out if someone’s partner is cheating or not. The great thing about hiring a private detective is that they don’t only catch your partner in the act, but they can trace their steps all the way back to their first affair. If hiring a private detective sounds too expensive, you can try buying some spy tech and setting it up around your house.

    Private detectives can help

    Private detectives can help you put an end to a cheating spouse, and they can do this by snooping around and collecting dirt on them. Sure, they might cost expensive, but sometimes it is very worth it. If you happen to be a rich individual and suspect your wife or husband of cheating, hiring a private investigator is going to be a breeze. For some people, finding out whether or not their partner is cheating as no price, especially if they are going through a divorce and want to pay less alimony. Since a cheating spouse usually collects less in a divorce case, catching your spouse red handed can be crucial.

    Picking up on cheating clues

    When I lived in Hamilton, I was happily married and living in a large home. Since I worked long hours to support my family, I always suspected my husband of cheating on me because he was alone a lot of the time. Since I wanted to be sure that my husband wasn’t cheating on me, I started trying to pick up on some cheating clues, but I could not could not find any. At first I thought that maybe he wasn’t really cheating on me, but I highly doubted it because he was much younger than me and quite good looking.

    He cheated before, he might do it again

    Eventually, I started paying the staff in my house to tell me if they saw anything suspicious concerning my husband, and a couple days later I received news that my husband had been inviting a younger woman over to our home. When I confronted him about it, he apologized for the affair and promised that it would never happen again, and I decided to forgive him. I continued to pay my staff to keep an eye on him, but since I was not receiving any news I decided to drop it. That is, until I divorce papers were handed to me by my lawyer. Upon reading my husband’s requests, I found out that he wanted to get alimony, and that he was asking for a ridiculously high amount.

    A private detective can catch him cheating

    Since I would have to pay my husband less alimony if he was caught cheating, I hired a private detective to investigate my husband. This proved to be an excellent idea because he was able to dig up a cheating-archive that dated back to the beginning of our relationship. If you suspect your husband or wife of cheating, but want to be sure before you hire a private detective, read our guide on how to spot a cheater.

  • Lady Purity 1 h 30 min on 30 January 2017 Permalink
    Tags: best dating services, dating in cairns, dating services, good dating service, top dating service   

    Best Dating Services in Cairns Australia 

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    Dating Services in Cairns, Australia

    More people are look to the internet to help them find casual no strings attached dates than ever before. Meeting at the club or at bars can be risky, even more so this day an age. But having casual sex should not be a risky venture. A woman should be able to meet guys and not have to worried about being assaulted or any negative consequences coming from it. That’s why online dating services have become so popular with ladies who are not interested in the whole boyfriend/monogamy thing.

    Best Dating Services

    There are several legitimate dating sites for ladies to get their groove on. Most of these dating sites are global ventures, meaning they have members from every country in the world no matter where you are. A city the size of Cairns is going to have hundreds if not thousands of local singles all interested in having a little kinky fun. One of the top sites for hooking up with local singles is Adult Friend Finder. It’s the site that I use, and not only will it give you access to singles in the Cairns area, but if you’re on vacation, you can use to find dates there too. That’s why it doesn’t make sense to pay for sites which are targeted to any specific area. A good dating site is not localized to any specific region. It makes little to no sense for them to target any one area since their business model is based on getting the most subscriptions.

    A good dating service that is focused on casual dating provides several key features that differ from a typical free dating service like OkCupid, or Plenty of Fish. Hookup dating sites will allow you upload all your sexy pics and engage in cam play with other users online. There are message boards to talk to people that are divided up into special interests and you can even keep a blog if you want. If you’re in roaming mode you can have your phone’s GPS allow other users from the site to locate you and allow you to locate other users from the site.

    It’s much safer to do it this way because everything is tracked and recorded by the site itself. IP addresses, users’ names, and credit card information, are tied specifically to your smart phone. So anyone who might want to use the service for cruel purposes would be caught immediately. Everything in this digital age is traceable.

    Dating in Cairns

    So many of the cute boys and girls I’ve met from dating services I have membership with are still people I see and hook up with on occasion. The great thing about the searching interface is that it allows you to screen people for sexual and personal compatibility before you start hooking up with them. It’s not like you can ask the guy you work with if he’s into sexual role play or BDSM. On a dating website like Adult Friend Finder, you can actually search through people’s personal sexual proclivities, so if you’re in the mood for a little role play, you can find a guy who digs that too.

    I like the control it gives me over the selection process. A lot of my girlfriends always tell me that I’m so beautiful and whatever, why would a girl like me need a dating service? Well, of course I could find a date whenever I want to, but I like being able to go through all the profiles and select guys who I’m interested in. It’s sort of like people watching from the comfort of my own living room.

    There’s even groups on the site which are specific to the Cairns area and people like to organize events and hookup parties for all the people on the site. I’ve never once felt threatened or worried for my safety because there’s a community there of people who are responsible to one another. Casual hookups have really never been safer, or more fun.

    We live in a digital age, and social networking has taken up a big portion of our lives. We use Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, to share our lives with our friends and family. It’s also made dating easier for people who are out there looking to meet other people, and online casual dating sites are a natural extension of the social revolution that is social networking online. You don’t have to feel weird or lame about using one because girls and guys everywhere are using them to meet people on their own time on their own schedule. I’ve had a great time in Cairns using sites like Adult Friend Finder and I definitely always recommend them to my friends.

  • Lady Purity 23 h 27 min on 25 January 2017 Permalink
    Tags: always have dates, date more than one woman, how to get them to like you, multiple women, real women   

    Always Have a Date: Tips For Keeping Your Life Full Of Great Women in the World 

    Online dating is really fun. It can also get really annoying, and make you feel super lonely. The best way to avoid this is to date multiple women. In essence you’re playing the field. So you need to make sure your field is full of quality players. Have you ever heard of the phrase the “spaghetti method”? Imagine throwing a bowl of spaghetti at a wall. You then see which of those stick. Not all will stick to the wall, but some will. This is how one should approach dating. Spread out your chances by dating as many women possible.

    dating multiple womenHow to get a life full of women

    How to manage a “woman pipeline”, and make sure you always have one or two women in your like at all times

    Invest your time wisely

    You’ve got to spend the time into finding the right women. This may mean countless hours pursuing women, that end up meaning nothing to you. Just like with anything in life, you have to work at it. I know plenty of guys that look around for months before they found just one lady to date. Your goal should be to work as hard as possible, until you find multiple women who want to date you. This way you’ll never be alone.

    Use multiple dating platforms

    This is an amazing adult dating site that can help you out. You have to do some research and see what dating sites produce the best kind of women that you’re attracted to. Everyone has a type, and you do to. So it will be helpful to find the right site that caters to your desires. For example, if you like older women, try to find a dating website designed for women of a certain age.

    Don’t just have one

    If you have one woman you like, do not stop there. If you “put all your eggs into one basket”, you risk getting hurt. Dating multiple women will allow for you to stay as happy as possible. If one woman rejects you, it won’t be painful if you have 3 more that are interested in you. Dating is all about a process of elimination. You cannot get too attached to one, you need to keep your options open. This will method will protect your ego, and your feelings.

    Keep them all interested

    Keeping multiple women interested in you could become quite tedious. You need to keep them all interested in you, so that you can have as many dates as possible. A good way of doing this is coming up with a plan of action that will work on all of them. For example, if you’re going to call one to tell her you miss her, call all of them consecutively. Make a checklist and keep track of who you’re contacting, and when. Share the same stories with them. That way you’ll never get them mixed up. You will always need to get all of them to like you.

    Delay honesty

    Most women want to feel special. They do not like knowing that they are one of many. If you want to date multiple women, to increase your chances of success; never be honest. If one of them asks if you are seeing anyone else, be as vague as possible. A misstep here will result in losing one of your many women. If she is scorned she may even try to contact the other women you are dating. Keep is casual, and light hearted.

    Don’t over schedule yourself

    Dating multiple women will always be fun. You may get so excited that you will want to fill up all your time with them. Remember though, a woman can be exhausting. Now multiply that by how many women you’re dating. They will all want something from you. They may even all want it at the same time. Allow your schedule to be open enough to cater to them, if you need to. This will be a delicate dance you will need to perform. It can be accomplished masterfully.

    Final Words

    Make sure you are ready to date multiple women. It may be easier than you think, to find many women to date at the same time. The real questions is, will you be able to handle it? It will take a man of great courage, and emotional intelligence to do something like this. Are you that kind of man? Are you a real man among wannabe men. If you are, the rewards of all your hard work will be limitless joy.

  • Lady Purity 18 h 32 min on 15 January 2017 Permalink
    Tags: bad guys are sexy, casual sex, dating profile pictures, , single ladies   

    How To Make Your Profile More Bad-Ass 

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    If there was no online dating then we would not be able to test the theory that bad guys are sexy, and get the most single ladies. But we are lucky enough to have tons of online dating sites that help bring men and women together for casual sex. The one theme that I have noticed over the years is that bad guys always get the girls online – they are always the ones enjoying casual sex here and there. Bad guys can mean a lot of things. It’s a visual factor having to do with dating profile pictures, as well as a descriptive factor. No doubt there is some fabrication going on here, which is what I want to focus on. How can you make a profile that screams bad-ass even if you are actually just a regular guy? What are the key things that every male profile needs to seem bad-ass, and therefore, more alluring to women? Is it okay to lie on your profile just to get laid? Well it sure is in my books, and it sure should be in your books too.

    Think about any resume you have ever written of yourself. Was it all completely factual? Probably not. Did it show off sides of yourself that were more bad-ass than they actually are? Definitely. So take inspiration from that and re-do your online profile to market yourself for more appealing for casual sex, because that’s what online dating is all about.

    Bad Guys Are Sexy

    The image of the 1950’s bad guy is a good place to start. You’ve seen photos of James Dean right? That’s the kind of thing to start thinking about, with you as James Dean. Picture you as a guy in boots, jeans, a leather jacket, greased back hair, a cigarette dangling in his mouth, and a pouty smile on his face. Is that possible? Let me tell you that had better be, because that’s how to get laid these days.

    Bad guys always have cars or motorcycles, and they don’t have very many interests outside of having fun and playing pool. That is if you live on the east coast. If you live on the west coast, mention something about surfing. If you live in the prairies, then it’s all about the cowboy stereotypes. These are broad outline themes for you to use as a guide when you create a profile on a dating site.

    The bad guy also says very little about himself, but would have many photos. Let the impressive image of yourself do most of the convincing. We are an exceptionally visual culture anyways, so why try and convince using words when your looks are the major thing that matters? I recommend getting a friend with a good camera to take some excellent photos of you. Bad-ass guys care about their looks. They are not jocks or computer tech guys – they are fancy men who like to live life in the fast-lane. So even if you don’t feel connected to these themes, it will help your dating profile to pretend that you are.

    Single Ladies

    What do you think single ladies want to see in a sexual partner? Brutal honesty and realism? Heck no. They want some fiction, some exciting lofty-ness that excites them out of the boring day to day. That’s the kind of impression you want to give each person that views your profile, because realistically you will only sleep with them once or twice anyways, so why worry about making an honest profile of yourself?

    Single ladies are in the the dating game because they like these challenges. Even though there are some ladies who are using the internet to have online affairs, the majority of ladies are single and looking for some action. So why not play yourself up and get them to come over one night?

    Dating Profile Pictures

    Aside from making up some bad-ass hobbies like motorcycling or snowboarding, I suggest putting up your height by a couple inches. No ladies I know like short men, so give yourself a little boost. It’s all the the best dating profile picture you can imagine, so make it happen no matter what. It will make all the difference in your pursuit for casual sex.

    I also recommend answering the personality questionnaire in a way that sounds more like James Bond than you. It’s going to mean that some of the most beautiful women who would never look at you in the street will be messaging you to meet up. That’s the magic of the bad-ass profile method – it get’s the most amazing results. Besides, I find that when I make up a little lie about myself it actually gives me a little boost of confidence to think I could be that. It’s a funny psychological trick that might work for you too. Who knows if you don’t try!

  • Lady Purity 4 h 48 min on 8 January 2017 Permalink
    Tags: casual hook ups, how to be a confident man, , online hookup sites, singles in my area   

    How To Get Laid In Tulsa 

    sex in tulsaGetting Laid In Tulsa

    If you want to get laid in Tulsa then you better get online to the hookup sites and start getting laid. Lot’s of the great state of Oklahoma is rural farmland, which means it’s hard to get out there and meet all the lovely ladies who happen to live in this fine state. What’s my solution? Online dating sites that are just jam packed with single ladies and men of all ages who like confident men, are ready to flirt, and are curious to start hooking up with you. That’s the easiest way to go, but once you are on there, you wanna start figuring out how to go about meeting the right kind of ladies that suit your personality. It’s definitely true that some of the younger ladies are looking for Mr. Right. These are the ladies to avoid. They are conservative types with loads of baggage that will just tie you down in the long run.

    In my experience, as a 52 year old lady who has been through two marriages, there are a number of great ways to get laid in Tulsa without having to worry about relationship hangups. Here’s how I recommend going about doing it, whether you are a 19 year old man or 79 year old lady. There are so many online dating sites out there if you just opened your eyes and looked for some casual hook ups.

    How To Be A Confident Man

    Us ladies love men who are confident and strong. Especially those guys who are silent and strong, who know when to lay low and let other’s do the entertaining. Definitely in Oklahoma you are going to want to stress that in your description. My best friend’s husband is a strong silent cowboy, and both my sisters are married to strong silent types. If you don’t know how to be a confident man, then you can at least pretend to be online.

    Ladies also love men you are confident in how they approach communication online. So men: if you want casual hook ups, then just go out and say it before anything else. Being confident in what you want makes it easier for ladies to know how to read you. If you don’t have the time for relationship talk, then I suggest looking into some of the sites geared towards online hookups for sex The same goes for ladies: if you want a relationship oriented dating site, then make sure you do the research. It will lead to faster rates of success for you anyways, so just take the plunge and sort out your relationship status before it’s too late.

    How To Get More Casual Hookups

    This goes for both men and women, but mostly women: when you are chatting away with someone, don’t go into a bunch of details about past relationships and how tough it has been. No one on the internet wants to know about it, and no one else is sharing that kind of stuff for the simple reason that it get’s in the way. We are all trying to create something exciting and new to forget about our past experiences, so join the club and start looking forward rather than backwards.

    Another tip is for men: I suggest offering to pick ladies up from their home, and dropping them off after the date. Not only is it gentlemanly and nice, but it makes sex a lot more likely. Almost all the men that offer that too me have gotten luck – so that’s a pretty good sign for all you men out there. I know from my research that there are a lot of singles in my area, and I bet there are a lot in your area too.

    My third dating tip is for both genders: be flirty, and don’t say no to joining a live cam dating site. Being flirty is just the best way to break the ice. If you are stuck for a conversation topic, ask about their pets. He or she is bound to have a dog, or maybe even some cute farm animals, so it’s a pretty safe bet you’ll get a positive reaction.

    Being flirty also means insinuating that you want to see more, that you want more out of the other person. It’s very sexy to be flirted with, and always escalates the conversation towards sex – which is what we all want, right?

    When it comes to web cams I just can’t say enough about how great they are. Especially in Tulsa where a lot people live outside the city, it’s so fun to be able to plug into their life without having to spend a whole afternoon on it.

    Singles In My Area

    What do I say to some of the singles in my area? Well, first thing’s be curious. If you are a confident man it can be hard to show curiosity – but I guarantee it’s one of the secret tips that all us women just love to see. We don’t want to be the one’s going into all the questioning. It’s really nice to have someone ask a bunch of personal questions about yourself right? Well, try it on the next match you get and see what happens. If they shy away from you then it’s time to move on. But most likely they will take warmly too it, and invite you in for more. It’s a sign of maturity and confidence to be able to stop talking about yourself and listen to someone else. It will make hooking up that much easier, that’s a given.

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